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Every woman has heard the advice that you need to play hard to get with a man to get him really interested in you. Does this advice actually have merit and does it ever work? Surprisingly it does work but the key to getting the most out of playing hard to get is to know how to do it in just the right way.

One problem that many women face when they try to play hard to get with a man is they go overboard and come across as disinterested. You need to find the right balance between engaging him and then pulling back. The reason that playing hard to get works so well with men is that men are natural hunters.  Men want to chase you until they catch you so if you stay right outside their reach, they’ll stay incredibly interested in you.

If you want to play hard to get with a man so it results in him falling head over heels in love with you, you need to think through every move you are making.

The same is true of telephone calls. Some women believe that they need to be completely unavailable to get a man hooked but that simply won’t work. If you never pick up when he calls he is going to reach the conclusion that you just aren’t interested in him at all. Answer the phone.  Maybe not just on the first ring every time.  But REMEMBER  just don’t make it a game.