The most important thing you can do is to prevent losing yourself in the process. A lot of women make the mistake of changing their personality to please their partners. Changing for the better is a totally different thing and when you’re just doing it to conform to what your man thinks you should be; this creates a bigger problem. He is attracted to women who wear stilettos and revealing clothes so you try hard to be this kind of woman even though you know you are a jeans and ballet flats kind of girl. You don’t have to change yourself so someone can fall in love with you. Love is not designed to work like that. Embrace yourself and learn how to love every inch of your personality so your partner will do the same. Let the other person fall for who you really are. Don’t give in to the urge of changing yourself. Hold on to your values and what you believe in.
If you want somebody to love you for who you are, make sure you hold on to the same principle when you enter into a relationship. This means that you also have to love your man for who he is and not for who you want him to be. Stop treating men as objects you can fix. Men cannot be trained and they certainly cannot be tricked into doing something they don’t want to do. Men can’t read minds so if you say something; it should be what you really mean.
