Tip #1: Make good eye contact. It implies that you can be trusted. Eye contact bonds you to people. If this is a woman you would like to get to know better, bonding is good.
Tip #2: Clean up your act. Women will definitely notice if you’ve taken the time to spruce up. Your hands and nails should be clean and well groomed. When a woman sees your hands, she subconsciously imagines them touching her. You want to make sure your hands make a good impression.
Tip #3: Surprise her by asking her questions and then listening to what she says. You can use what you learn later in the conversation to impress her with the fact that you were actually focused on her and remember what she had to say. (Men – this will go a long, long way…trust me!)
Tip #4: Your mouth says more than you think. Be sure your lips are moist and kissable. You think this doesn’t apply to you? Girls want to kiss soft lips, not rough scratchy ones. Try a little lip balm – when she comes back for kiss number two, you’ll be glad you did. And don’t forget what’s behind those lips. You don’t have to have pearly whites but your teeth should definitely be clean and fresh.
Tip #5: Be a gentleman. For example, offer to get her a drink or walk with her to the buffet table. Show polite interest in her friends while keeping your main focus on her. Ask her what her favorite song is and then request the DJ to play it. When slow dancing, don’t get too “friendly” until she opens the door. Small gestures, perhaps, but let her know that chivalry is still alive in today’s world.
