Choose your partner carefully.
You must choose a partner with whom you can have a magical and lasting union. In this particular situation all men are not created equal as some match you better than others. And love does not always conquer all problems.
Take hold of all the growth opportunities available to you in your life.
To find the magic that keeps couples together you must be a magical part of the equation. There is nothing magical about an unhappy, unfulfilled woman who expects the man to magical save her from herself and her life, is there? Nobody expects that you will be perfect but you need to be growing in accepting yourself and who you are.
You must both work at making your relationship magical.
Unfortunately for many of us magical relationships just do not happen magically by themselves. You must both bring into the relationship what you want to get from the relationship. You must sow into the relationship what you expect to reap from it. For your relationship to be magical then you need to do the right positive things even when you don’t feel like it.
To find the magic that keeps couples together then you must both be the right people in the sense that you must individually have the ability to be with the other for the long haul without needlessly hurting each other. You must then be committed and willing to work on your relationship so that it is becomes as magical and enchanting as you both want it to be.