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Your first step is the most important one. Are you listening? You Are A Unique, Special, Lovable Person all by yourself. Don’t list your faults please! The mean people of the world do that for us. List your special attributes that made you who you are. Remember a subject in school you really loved, a hobby that made you happy, an activity that gladdened your heart
, a group of people that you really loved to be with? These are the things that made you who you are today, no matter what your age, financial situation, health status or social standing. Your roots formed your tree of life, build on that strength to nurture the future you envision for yourself. -
Step 2
Your second step is actually the easiest, honest! Who do you know, know well and trust? Would you accept their advice about a car repair shop, the best store to find a good deal on that must have item you want, the church that matches your beliefs, the nicest people they know in their lives? Well, what are you waiting for? Don’t be afraid to ask them about eligible mates that they like themselves! Doesn’t this beat the odds of on-line dating? Have any of you tried that process? For every keeper you meet there are over 10 others that just plain lie about themselves. They say they like this and that, but how often do their wants really match your own? Stack the odds in your favour by utilizing your own support group, the people you talk to every week. It’s that easy.
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Step 3
© Fotolia IV – Fotolia.comYour last step is actually the hardest one of all. Who have you dated that makes you feel comfortable? Who can you spend 15 minutes just holding hands with without feeling the need to talk? Who have you met that you felt an instant attraction for? Who takes the time to listen to your conversation without interrupting with un wanted advice every other sentence? Concentrate on these people please! Do you want drama in your life, or peace and contentment? The choice is yours, you are in control of your future. Are you ready to guide your life to what you want, or willing to settle for what you can get? Think, Feel, and Decide with all the talent that resides in your heart. You will not be disappointed.
