You know the saying that says, “Be careful what you wish for”? It’s your new job to give him space, and it’s your goal to be the employee of the month. What does this mean? Don’t initiate ANYTHING. No texting. No calling. No myspacing. No facebooking. No emailing. No hanging out. If he wants to talk to you, he’s going to have work at it. After all, he’s the one who needed space, not you.
Don’t tell the world. Ok, so he says he needs space. Don’t tell everyone that he said it. The more people you tell, the better the chance is that it will get back to him, and he’ll know exactly how upset you are.
Ladies, this is a chance to focus on you. In the mean time, give him a chance to find out what he wants. Sometimes, men don’t mean any harm – they just need to find out what they really want. He could love you too much and be really scared that you’re the real thing. So if he asks for space, give it to him. I believe 90 percent of the time that he will get it right and you guys will enjoy an amazing relationship together.