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Step 1

Talk to your friends.

  • Step 2

    Get clear with your ex. If there are a lot of unresolved issues involving money, possessions, etc., clear them up.

  • Step 3

    Distract yourself. Movies, sightseeing, outdoor activities, games and a good book are all possibilities.

  • Step 4

    Take up a new hobby or enroll in some classes.

  • Step 5

    Exercise – put your mind on something new, like training for a marathon, improving your tennis game, or working on those abs.

  • Step 6

    Work hard. Work can be a great distraction, especially if you feel like you’re accomplishing something.

  • Step 7

    Indulge yourself. Chocolates, massages, facials, shopping sprees – whatever helps make you feel good about yourself.

  • Step 8

    Date other people.