Step 1
Plan on an end to the relationship. You can´t be seperated indefinitely so plan a date when you can be rejoined and stick to it.
Plan a time every day or every other day to talk on the phone. Discuss for how long and when. Be sure to stay updated on the other persons life so that when you´re together you don´t feel like strangers.
Stay connected. Use a Voip program, which is like the telephone over the internet. Use Skype for video chats. Be sure that you see each other in some physical sense at least once every 2 months. Your bodies will change and you don´t want any surprises.
Send presents. Something tangible that the other person can have and hold. This is one of the few ways that you can actually have a daily impact on someone elses life. Send flowers or a gift certificate
to a restaurant.
Don´t become jealous at the mention of anyones name of the opposite sex that has come into your spouses life. This is normal he/she needs to meet other people. They won´t be romantic relationships but your negative jealousy is sure to hurt the relationship.
